Review and Summary of NurtureShock: New Thinking About Children


I was scheduled to deliver the Parent Education component tonight at our Inglewood Parent Participation Preschool and decided to review the recent book out NutureShock: New Thinking About Children by Po Bronson and Ashley Merryman.  My good friend Barb Smith brought this book to my attention, and it has been great recommendation in terms of how interesting and directly relevant the information is towards the goal of raising happy and successful children.

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The term “nurtureshock” is described as the panic common to new parents that “the mythical fountain of knowledge is not magically kicking in.” It’s that gut-pummeling doubt that hits the moment you bring your first child home from the hospital— “They let us keep this thing” — and snowballs from there.  Such feelings of inadequacy, the authors suggest, are justified. But, as they write, “small corrections in our thinking today could alter the character of society long term, one future-citizen at a time.”

This book is essentially a collection of scientific studies that challenge many long held assumptions about children, child development and successful parenting.  The authors relate recent scientific findings to argue that some of the conventional wisdom about parenting and child development is a combination of “wishful thinking, moralistic biases, contagious fads, personal history and old (disproven) psychology. . .”

The authors state that they selected their various topics because the research was surprising and contradicted common parenting assumptions and practices.

About the Authors

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Po Bronson is a well known author, primarily from writing novels about Bay Area bond trading and Silicon Valley technology start up companies.

Po Bronson and Ashley Merryman’s New York Magazine articles on the science of parenting won the magazine journalism award from the American Association for the Advancement of Science and a Clarion Award. Their articles for Time Magazine have won the award for outstanding journalism from the Council on Contemporary Families.  The book is an expansion of their articles on science and parenting.

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November 3rd, 2009 in Family Life | No Comments »

West Vancouver Townhouse for Rent During Olympics

Located in central West Vancouver with a stunning view of the City of Vancouver sits an elegant townhouse ready for your comfort and exciting Olympic experience. With 3000 square feet of space, and 2/3 bedrooms with den over three levels, this town home promises space and privacy for your vacation needs. Minutes to Olympic venues on Cypress/Grouse Mountain and downtown, as well as, an hour away from Whistler village this town home is situated in an ideal location.  The fees are $800/night with a 10 day minimum.  Contact Nicole Garton-Jones at 778-786-0615 ext. 111 or nicole@bcheritagelaw.com for further information.

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October 15th, 2009 in Business | No Comments »

Bobs & Lolo - Live!

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Join award-winning children’s duo Bobs & Lolo for a musical adventure on Sunday, November 29th at 3pm at the West Vancouver United Church, 21st Street & Esquimalt Avenue (across from the new community centre). Doors open at 2pm and seats are not allocated in advance, so come early for some family fun and games, including face painting and a concession. The concert will consist of two 30 minute sets with intermission. Bobs & Lolo connect kids to the natural world with music, movement and make-believe. All concert proceeds will go to supporting locally-based Inglewood Parent Participation Preschool.

Bobs & Lolo have three albums and a DVD, which is currently featured on Treehouse TV. Get ready for the concert in advance!

For help and advice or to order over the phone, please call 604 922 2220 or toll free 1 877 216 5463.

To order online: http://www.lavishandlime.com/Bobs-Lolo-Live-Nov-29-Concert-Tickets-p-328.html

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Cost is $10.25 per ticket, which includes a flat postage fee of $0.25. Children under 2 years, on laps, are free.

Bobs & Lolo recently won a 2009 Parents’ Choice Gold Award, which honours the best material for children and is considered the ‘Academy Award’ of the industry. They also just won a 2009 Western Canadian Music Award for Recording of the Year.

Bobs & Lolo are dedicated to connecting kids to the natural world with music, movement and make-believe. Sharing musical stories that engage, inspire and educate, they teach kids to care about themselves, their neighbours and the planet.

Originally from Vancouver Island, childhood friends Bobs & Lolo are quickly becoming one of Canada’s leading kids’ musical groups.


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October 6th, 2009 in Public Affairs | No Comments »

Ending Homelessness: What Works

Inspiring and Effective Solutions from The Tyee’s Monte Paulsen.

When: Friday, October 9th.  7:00pm.

Where: Museum of Vancouver.  1100 Chestnut St.  Map: http://www.museumofvancouver.ca/about.php

Cost: Free, but a donation to the Food Bank is encouraged.

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Monte Paulsen has been investigating homelessness in Vancouver — its causes and its cures — for nearly three years. We at The Tyee know Monte to be smart, tenacious, and a person who deeply cares. Which is why he finds out so much, and has so many good ideas to share.

On Friday, October 9, members of the public can gain the benefit of Paulsen’s insights when he gives a talk at the Museum of Vancouver marking Homeless Action Week. Titled Ending Homelessness: What Works, the illustrated presentation will survey the state of homelessness in B.C., review the history of homelessness in Vancouver, and explore strategies to end street homelessness across the province.

Homelessness is not like cancer or climate change. Homelessness is something we actually know how to cure,” Paulsen says.

We can end homelessness in British Columbia, with measurable benefit to our public health and collective dignity, for less money than we are currently spending to maintain the homeless.”

Following the event, MOV will host an informal discussion and reception. MOV will also launch a feature entitled Home Phone by local design firm, Contexture. This decommissioned phone booth has been re-imagined as a living space.

According to the designers,” For many homeless people without the benefit of a cell phone, the public phone booth is an important amenity to connect beyond local neighbourhoods. We see the loss of the phone booth as a loss of public infrastructure in our cities. We’re not suggesting that the Home Phone is a realistic solution to the homelessness problems in Vancouver, instead an opportunity for discussion. “

Keep reading: http://thetyee.ca/Tyeenews/2009/10/01/EndingHomelessness/

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October 6th, 2009 in Public Affairs, Uncategorized | No Comments »

North Shore Schizophrenia Society Lecture - Tina Tomashiro

An inspiring story of recovery, presented by this year’s Courage to Come Back Award recipient in the Mental Health category, Tina Tomashiro.

Tina will talk about her incredible journey through serious mental illness, from self-medication with street drugs to dull the pain of living with untreated schizophrenia and depression, to making a new life for herself with a home, a fulfilling career, and volunteer work to help the people in her community.

Where: Lions Gate Hospital Auditorium
When: Wednesday, September 30 at 7:30 p.m.

For more information, call the the Family Support Centre at 604-926-0856 or go to http://www.northshoreschizophrenia.org/lecture.htm.

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September 28th, 2009 in Public Affairs | No Comments »

The Paperless Law Office: Why to Do It, Issues to be Aware of and an Example in Practice

Why to Do It

Generally speaking, the benefits are:

  • reduced file storage costs;
  • the efficiency of having all firm information reside in once central digital repository.  Also, a firm is better positioned to take advantage of new technologies such as document automation if client information is already stored digitally;
  • better risk management as client conflict checks are more comprehensive and automatic;
  • the ability to work remotely, enhancing work life balance (which can be an human resources advantage); and
  • often enhanced client service through increased speed of delivery of legal services.

Issues to Be Aware Of

A firm has to be aware of potential issues of being paperless, including:

  • the importance to regular and secure data back-up
  • security concerns; and
  • potential staff resistance.

How to Do It

At the outset, a firm needs to be dedicated to the paperless goal and implement a well organized plan. It is important to get buy in from all staff, put firm policies in place and ensure adequate time and resources are allotted to planning, implementation and training.

Second, a firm must ensure its hardware is up to the demands of the increased amount of scanning, processing and storage.  Network servers need the ability to store up to 5 GB per lawyer per year. Having a reliable backup system and testing it often is critical.  A firm should consider installing scanners at every desk and have a central printer/scanner for larger scanning projects.

Third, a firm needs to put the required software in place. Adobe Acrobat is the standard for document exchange and is a good means for converting paper documents to legal files.  A document management software program needs to be selected, which serves as an electronic filing cabinet.  Many law firms use Worldox.  Finally, a firm may want to consider legal practice management software as well.  Practice management software allows a law firm to centrally organize client information digitally, including accounting, contact and case data.  Practice management programs often have documents management capabilities built in, or you can link a third party document management program such as Worldox.  Two popular of practice management programs are Amicus Attorney and Time Matters.

Example in Practice

Heritage Law is an example of a paperless law firm and utilizes practice management software to centrally manage billing, time tracking, matter information, contacts, appointments, documents and document assembly.  All staff log into one remote, secure server over the internet which is a repository for all firm data and software applications.  We have a VOIP phone system which allows ten staff in ten different locations to use the same phone line and system.  We have a remote answering service which answers client calls during the business day if a staff member is out of the office and routes the message to the appropriate person to deal with.  All staff have a computer, high speed internet, a VOIP phone and a scanner at their home offices.

With respect to software, we use PCLawPro for billing and time keeping.

We use Time Matters Enterprise for matter management and tracking contacts and appointments.  Time Matters has been customized for Heritage Law as follows.  There are tabs for matters in the categories of: Corporate, Litigation, Estate Admin, Estate Planning, Family Law, Mediation and by responsible lawyer so every open matter in the firm is categorized and viewable from one central location.  Each matter has an electronic client intake sheet so the user can see information including the date the file was opened, the responsible lawyer, the referral source, bring forward dates, relevant limitation dates, conflict check info, retainer letter info, any special billing info and a current status field where a short update is typed as the file progresses.

We use Worldox for document management.  No paper is kept except for original client documents.  Every document is saved or scanned into the system and saved according to client and matter.  Every document saved in Worldox is searchable by client, matter, description and text.

We use HotDocs 2008 Professional Edition for document assembly.  All our standard firm documents (memo, fax cover sheet, retainer letters, non-engagement letters, reporting letters and demand letters) are automated.  We are currently working on a project to automate our estate planning practice (wills, powers of attorney and representation agreements).  Document automation, in addition to the other programs, enables staff to generate client documents in an efficient and high quality manner.

PCLaw, Time Matters, Worldox and HotDocs are all linked together to work as a cohesive whole.

Each member of the firm shares a Microsoft Windows desktop running on a shared server in the Heritage Law IT infrastructure, and every desktop offers all of the core productivity applications previously described. Because all of the desktops reside on the same server, rather than on individually configured and field deployed desktop PCs, all that is required for a staff member to access and begin work for Heritage each day is a Windows PC and an internet connection. The Windows PC does not have to have any special applications installed on it, and might be a home PC, a borrowed PC, a laptop on the road or any other PC to which the staff member has access throughout their work day.

Each staff member has a Polycom SoundPoint IP 560 desk phone with HD Voice technology. Each phone has an ordinary 3 digit extension registered through Iristel, a Canadian internet telephony service provider. The power of the phone system is derived from the fact that the phones can be connected to any ordinary internet connection in any of the staff member’s home offices, and yet all remain reachable through simple 3 digit extensions. Calls to other phones in North America are toll free, and calls within the firm have HD voice quality. There is an automated attendant to greet callers and provides a directory for them to reach the appropriate staff member’s extension.

As the staff all wish to have flexible schedules, we employ a call answering service based in Abbotsford, BC called Re: Messaging Solutions Inc.  If a staff member does not pick up a client call directed to their local on our phone system, the call is then automatically forwarded to the answering service.  The answering service can then call the staff member directly on their cell phone, email the message to them or forward the message to another staff member, depending on the circumstances.  This allows us to be able to maintain a high level of client service while staff are out of the office during regular business hours.

Clients can fill out questionnaire forms online which are emailed to the firm prior to a file being opened.  The goal in the future is to populate this information into an answer file in our document automation program for enhanced efficiency.   Heritage Law is currently working on www.heritagelawonline.com, where clients will be able to potentially interact with the firm entirely online.

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September 18th, 2009 in Business | No Comments »

Why I Support the HST

Although small and medium sized business will pay tax on more items, they will be able to recover that tax.  Right now companies pay PST on many items needed to run their businesses, and that is passed on to customers in the form of higher prices.

Also, because the GST and PST regimes are not currently aligned, the rules differ.  Compliance is more complex - and thus more expensive to administer.  There will also be efficiencies in the government side of administration.

It’s true that consumers will pay more on items not covered by exemptions, but the HST overall will make  BC more competitive long term.  That will help increase investment and create jobs - better for more British Columbians long term.

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August 25th, 2009 in Public Affairs | No Comments »

Six months until Vancouver Olympics

Visit msnbc.com for Breaking News, World News, and News about the Economy

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August 12th, 2009 in Public Affairs | No Comments »

North Shore Schizophrenia Society Video


North Shore Schizophrenia Society members talk about their experiences dealing with serious mental illness in their families and how they have been helped by the Family Support Centre.

The video was originally shown at the Circle of Strength 2009 fundraiser May 2, 2009.

Produced by R.J. Sauer (brudder productions).

www.northshoreschizophrenia.org
Family Support Centre: 604-926-0856 or info@northshoreschizophrenia.org

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August 9th, 2009 in Public Affairs | No Comments »

Core Competencies of a Good Lawyer

In creating a Scorecard for a new contract lawyer position with Heritage Law, these are the key competencies I came up with. I think these competencies probably apply to the majority of legal jobs - with an emphasis on technological affinity and autonomy probably higher for our firm than most.

Honesty/Integrity. Does not cut corners ethically. Earns trust and maintains confidences. Does what is right, not what is expedient. Speaks plainly and truthfully.

Traditional Intelligence. Learns quickly. Demonstrates ability to quickly and proficiently understand and absorb new information.

Emotional Intelligence. Empathy, perspective, understanding, listening skills.

Work ethic. Possesses strong willingness to work hard and sometimes long hours to get the job done. Has a track record of working hard.

Analytical ability. Can think logically on the basis of a set of rules nad analyse situations using common sense.

Logical reasoning. Able to understand, analyse and evaluate arguments.

Sound Judgment. Capacity to assess situations or circumstances and draw sound conclusions

Advocacy/Persuasion. Able to convince others of a conclusion or to pursue a course of action.

Attention to Detail. Thorough in accomplishing a task with concern for all the areas involved, no matter how small. Does not let important details slip through the cracks or derail a file.

Communication skills. Speaks and writes clearly, in all modes of communication.

Autonomy. Able to work productively and keep motivated in less structured work environment.

Pro-activity. Acts without being told what to do. Brings new ideas to the firm.

Flexibility/adaptability. Adjusts quickly to challenging priorities and conditions. Copes effectively with complexity and change.

Calm under pressure. Maintains stable performance under pressure or stress.

Enthusiasm. Exhibits passion and excitement over work. Has can-do attitude.

High standards. Expects personal performance and team performance to be nothing less than the best.

Openness to criticism and ideas. Solicits feedback and reacts calmly to criticism or negative feedback.

Team Player. Reaches out to peers and cooperates with team to establish an overall collaborative working relationship.

Sales/Business Development skills. Comfortable generating new business for self and the firm and networking and building relationships with referral sources.

Multi-tasking. Can effectively juggle and prioritize competing demands.

Responsiveness. Responds constructively and expediently to client and staff communications and requests.

Efficiency. Able to produce work with minimal wasted effort.

Creativity/innovation. Generates new and innovative approaches to problems.

Technological Affinity. Comfortable with and can use current technologies.

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August 5th, 2009 in Business | No Comments »

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